Did you know that there are only a few things that really hold a person back in life? These can include, unmet needs, insufficient distinctions and/or having unresolved matters. Fully handling matters at all times is a skill worth mastering, especially as you are taking on big challenges.
Unfinished business can dominate our lives until it is known and resolved. What are unresolved matters, and where do they come from? Unfinished business and unresolved matters are events which have occurred in our lives that passed by without our having done what was necessary to be current. Examples are as follows:
* Not taking out the trash when it was full yesterday * Not stopping someone from saying things that hurt you * Doing something you considered wrong or not right * Not going for a goal you really wanted but were afraid to go for
Most people survive these unresolved matters, but in every instance there is a cost! Because the natural state of human being is balance, wholeness and integrity, we lose power and energy when we have unresolved matters. Proof? Virtually everyone feels much better after having cleaned out a closet or replaced those wire hangers with wooden or plastic hangers.
A person who has mastered the skill of having nothing unresolved and fully handling things as they occur is someone who has virtually taken control of his or her life. Acceptance of doing, whether "liked" or "not liked" is the beginning of the change on how attractive you can be!
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