Powerful Words
Posted on 11/18/2011 by Alan Rousso
Categories: Communication Skills Personal Growth Coaching Distinctions

Stop and think a moment ... what do you really sound like and what message are you really giving to your daily communications? I'm not just talking about what you say to others, but also, what and how we speak to ourselves. 

Case in point: A woman was going to a party that her company was giving. All of the women were going to be wearing dark suits.  This particular woman did not own one. She said to herself, "I need to buy a new suit."  Now, stop and reflect...what she say and how did she sound? The answer is: like someone else was directing her actions which weakened her self-image, her self-esteem, and, her words created a very unhappy lady! Now buying a suit was not going to be a good experience! It was going to be a chore!

Let's change this now ... Same scenario, only this time the woman exclaims, "I WANT to buy a new suit!"  How did she sound? The answer is: brighter, lighter, in charge of her actions and coming from cause, instead of effect.  This was now something new and exciting, fun and powerful!  All this from choosing and changing one word!!!

Please know that there is a hierarchy to the words you select by energy and vibration.  Notice during your day how many times you say, "I have to, or I need to, or I should have".  These are very disempowering statements that leave you feeling less than.  How often are you aware that you even do this???

The words that empower you begin with, "I choose to, I want to, I desire to, and, best of all, I love to!" There are so many examples of what and how you speak with yourself all day! If we listen and become more aware, we can change what we say and therefore change the way we feel!

Many of you are already aware of the law of attraction. It's been written about in books like "The Secret", as well as, "The Power" by Rhonda Byrne, among others.

The question that I always had about this information is, "does life really work this way?" "Do you really need to change the way you feel toward positive thoughts and feelings to attract the people, places, experiences and things that you want in your life?"  My answer is, "Can you think of a better way to live your life?!"

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